Lying here in bed in silence, not even the noise of the TV. Just me, following the doctor’s orders after the procedure yesterday. A few Facebook videos here and there to pass the time. And then I came across one that stopped me—it was about scars.

We all have them. Some are visible, and some are invisible. Some are carved across our skin, and some are carved deep in our hearts.

We all hurt.

We are all torn.

And too often, we think we’re the only ones.

So we resolve to hurt alone.

But like Thomas, maybe we should speak up.

Thomas didn’t hide his doubt. He said plainly that unless he saw the scars in Jesus’ hands, he would not believe. And when Jesus came to him, He didn’t scold him. He didn’t hide His wounds. He showed them. He let Thomas touch the scars that told the story of death defeated.

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The Scars of Jesus

After His resurrection, Jesus appeared to the disciples. Most of them rejoiced, but Thomas refused to believe. He said plainly:

“Unless I see the nail marks in His hands and put my finger where the nails were, and put my hand into His side, I will not believe.” (John 20:25)

When Jesus came to him, He did not hide His wounds. Instead, He invited Thomas closer:

“Put your finger here; see my hands. Reach out your hand and put it into my side. Stop doubting and believe.” (John 20:27)

Jesus could have risen with a flawless body. He could have erased every trace of the cross. But He chose to keep His scars.

Not as marks of defeat. Not as reminders of suffering. But as proof of victory. His scars preached a sermon Thomas could not deny: “What was meant to destroy Me has been overcome.”

A Folklore of Scars

There’s an old story told in parts of West Africa. A boy was once attacked by a crocodile. The beast dragged him into the river, thrashing and biting until the villagers rushed to his aid. When they pulled him out, his body was torn and scarred.

For months he covered himself, ashamed, thinking everyone would only see weakness. But one day the elders said to him:

“You carry the proof that the river did not swallow you. These scars are not shame, but testimony. Anyone who sees them will know you faced death and lived.”

From that day forward, the boy stopped hiding. His scars became his strength. His story gave courage to others who feared the river.

My Own Scar

I have many scars on me—from accidents to mosquito bites, and so much in between. Even the scar that will probably be there after I heal from the long needle that was inserted under anesthesia to help with the pain yesterday, to avoid a third surgery on the same body part.

But one of the scars I will never forget is the one on the top of my foot. It was rubbed raw, white as chalk. It took a long time for the blood to come pouring out because I didn’t listen when my mother told us (my brothers and I) not to get on the bicycle with our friends.

I remember slipping, sliding, and screaming for them to stop.

The louder I begged, the faster they pedaled.

All four of us on one bicycle, having a ball until I slipped and hung on for dear life.

Over it all, I could hear my mother’s voice ringing in my head:
“Don’t go with them. The devil finds use for idle hands. Go and read a book!”

But I wanted the thrill. I didn’t listen. I was the only girl; I should have known better.

That scar isn’t one I wear proudly like a badge of honor. It’s a scar of remembrance. It reminds me to listen—when wisdom warns me to walk away, when the Spirit nudges me to leave something alone, when life shows me that some fights aren’t mine to fight.

All I can say is, after the whipping my brothers and I got that summer (yes, on top of that pain), the Nancy Drew and Hardy Boys book series became our refuge. We read every one ever written.

Those books offered a quiet escape, a place to sit, reflect, and dream without risk. In hindsight, those moments were teaching me something just as valuable as the scar itself: survival isn’t only about avoiding danger—it’s also about pausing, reflecting, and learning from the whispers of wisdom around us.

Scars That Testify

Your scars might tell a different story. Maybe they speak of survival from an accident. Maybe they hold memories of an abusive relationship. Maybe, like that little boy, you faced danger and lived to tell about it. Or maybe your scars are the result of someone else’s cruelty, pressed on you like Jesus—unearned, yet endured.

Whatever the story, your scars are not just marks of pain. They are proof that you are still here. They carry meaning, and they carry a testimony.

People may look twice when you wear them proudly. But scars speak. And when they speak, they remind others they are not alone.

So I’ll ask you what I’m asking myself:

What is your story? What scars are you carrying, and what do they say?

Share them below. Someone needs your testimony to find the courage to stop hiding theirs.

And if for nothing else, our scars are conversation starters on our obedience journey to win souls.

If my writing touches even one person, it will not have been in vain.

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